Anonymity
You need to determine if you are going to donate your sperm
anonymously, or not. When deciding this,
ask yourself if you are prepared to be the biological father of a child or children
who might want to meet you one day. That
could be the case if you decide not to donate anonymously. If you do decide to remain anonymous, ask
yourself that question in another way. Are you ready to be the father of a
child or children whom you will never meet?
Are you okay with knowing that there will be children who will never
know their biological father? There are emotional factors to consider if you
have not already. While there is not
right or wrong answer to these questions, you need to decide what your personal
opinions and beliefs are based on the questions. Be sure you have really considered what you
are doing before you follow through with your donation.
Long Term Effects
As stated above, regardless of whether or not you decide to
donate anonymously or not, there could be long term emotional effects that you
have not considered. Also, if you are
donating your sperm to someone you know who is having difficulty becoming
pregnant, consider the effects it might have on your relationship down the
road? Does this person expect you to play a role as a parent? Will they change
their mind down the road? Would you like to play a major parenting role in the
child’s life? Be sure you speak honestly
and openly with the individual for whom you are donating, and consider drawing
up a legal agreement to protect your rights.
Prepare for testing
Before donating sperm, you will be required to receive a
number of health related tests to insure you are free from any diseases or
health issues. An extensive background
check and health check will be conducted, as the person receiving your donation
will want to know as much information as possible about the sperm they are
receiving. Are you prepared or such tests? Do you have the time and are you
will to put in the effort and be %100 honest on the questionnaires? Remember
that you are creating a life that can be affected by any health issues you
might have and it is important for the child and the parents to know the
father’s health history.
Do your research
When you make the decision to donate sperm, be sure to do
your research on the clinic you decide to use.
Research reviews and insure the clinic is up to code and a healthy place
to donate. Insure their equipment and
facilities are sterile, and the legalities are in order. Your health and personal protection are
important.
About the Author
Tess Young is a writer for a health blog. She suggests
finding more information on how to become a sperm donor at California
Cryobank.